Monday, August 04, 2008

Thou Shalt Not. . . .

Covet thy neighbors. . . Iphone?   
Today I officially took possession of my husband's toy, I mean phone.   I'm feeling a little guilty.  For months now I've seen his buddies eyes light up with a strange green fascination whenever they see this sleek little machine.  It seems to have some hypnotic magic power that I'd love to bottle and sell at the cosmetics counter!   

We'll see if this device actually makes life easier as I update my phonebook & change numbers.  It should be interesting since Nate took my phone # & I took his #.   His new job requires him to join the rank & file Blackberry toting business men of the world.  

Back in the day I never wanted to carry a cell phone.  If I wanted to be found--I'd go home.  But then I saw the StarTac, remember the first micro-mini cell phone?   It became my goal!  I'd know I was successful when I had a phone the size of a lighter!  When my first job gave me a flip-phone, I was hot-stuff!    Seriously, I can't even place this phone into my reality!   I sync my Macbook, ICalendar, ITunes, to my Iphone. When people ask to see pictures of Sophia, I push a button and have a pocket sized slide show of her life. The touchscreen internet features are fascinating. I've unwittingly become a Mac geek overnight!   Where's my Jetson robot & flying car!

Instead, I'm still hanging on by a thread of motherhood sanity!  Example--I've already tried to destroy my husband's coveted conversation piece. I left it on top of the car!  We didn't realize it till we got home.  Nate saw it wedged into the car's roof!  

I'm even a little concerned about using it in public. I'm not sure what type of attention I'll get. . . remember the population of Cedar Rapids is overwhelmingly made up of engineers,  IT people, and tech guys (Rockwell Collins being our largest employer). Around here, you're far more likely to get ogled because of the hardware your carrying than anything you're wearing! I'll keep you posted!

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Our Current Sentiments. . .

"I travel a lot; I hate having my life disrupted by routine."  
~Caskie Stinnet

Overheard. . . .


"You, vacuuming the driveway?"  asked Sophia, wondering why mommy was cleaning a rug out in front of the house.  Actually, it'd been in the garage while our wood floors were installed and acquired layer of sawdust.

"You're magic carpet's double parked. . ."Dana [my younger brother] flatly informed me--not bothering to ask why a large rug was sunning itself in front of our home.
"Yeah? Well if I go back out there and it's gone we're really in trouble. . ." 

Later that same day. . .

"What are you doing?"Dana asked casually.
"Waiting for the cable guy.   Every time I get on the internet. . . "
     "The fridge shuts off?"  He jokingly interrupted
"You should see what happens when I open the garage door . . ."  

This is normal sibling banter for the two of us.  The goal isn't an exchange of information, the priority is laughter.   Info is simply a vehicle for the next punch line.  

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Let the Adventure Begin!

Congratulations Nate on your last day! Eight great years at Duane Arnold!  We're praying for you Monday as you start you latest venture!  You deserve this new challenge! You're gonna be great!

F.Y.I.

No traffic tickets were given in the making of this post.  My husband called asking me if I'd been pulled over--guess I'd just been day dreaming while I was pumping gas.  What can I say I'm an optimist?

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

My Gas Tank Made Made Me Do It



"Speeding?  I'd like to think of it as celebrating my fuel efficiency. . ."
"But officer, I can't afford to make a complete stop, can you?"
"No, I wasn't tailgating, I was drafting!"

Sunday, July 20, 2008

What a beautiful story!

Many of your have gushed about these incredible photo's that I've pasted up all over my site. Unfortunately I don't have ANY around my house because I can't choose. I want them all and I want them HUGE! (Tres chic let me tell you!) Like a SHRINE to Sophia! Many of you have also commented that if money weren't an issue, you'd gladly fly your child to Florida to have their pics taken by this genius who makes your children look as adorable as you believe they are. So I had to share some of the magic behind the scenes.
Also I've become a HUGE believer in mom-based businesses, and I will give any and all support I can. Not that this mom needs my help :)

Do you recognize this man?

 If you think he looks like the autistic victim in Law & Order than you definitely don't have kids.  Look closely parents-if you have a child between 1-5 you have a chance?  Now imagine him in a green stripped rugby & khaki pants?   Still nothing?   Now picture him with an animated little dog.  Yep--that's him Steve, from the original Blues Clues!
It's official our two year old, Sophia has her first crush--and like many young girls, it's someone on TV who sings or dances.  Much to my husband's chagrin it's Steve from Blues Clues, the original host of the toddler show.  Nate much prefers Joe, Steve's replacement (he claims Steve reminds him too much of Pee Wee Herman.)  Personally, Joe's much more animated like a typical children's TV host (something that gets old when you have to watch it as many times as I do.) 

Sadly this is the debate in our house. Steve or Joe? 'Course most of the time Sophia calls them both Steve so maybe it only matters to us?  But the way she asks to see Steve--well we're both getting flashes of a 13-year old Sophia pining for some teen-heart-throb.  So to settle Nate's Pee Wee concerns of course we had to Google him.  Our fears were alleviated, but I will admit that knowledge of the show sort of ruined my motherhood ideal.  

The first time I saw Blues Clues (what Sophia has christened Cous Cous!) I was taken with the sweetness of Steve and his little banter with household objects.  After you spend any time with a toddler you find yourself talking like Steve weather its conscious or not.  So in my head I imagined that Steve was a stay at home Dad who made up a whole little world for his toddler and then turned it into an award winning TV show.  (I guess if I imagined him as a dad it was less creepy?!?)    Anyway if you're reading this and you're thinking --who cares!?!?  Well don't worry--someday you'll have kids and when they want to watch the same show OVER & OVER for weeks at a time till everyone has memorized EVERY line & EVERY pause.  Well then you may find yourself thinking What's the deal with this guy? Or girl? Whomever is the hero of your child's fascination.  And then you'll be glad for Google too!  Besides what else are you going to do while you watch that video AGAIN?!?
Wanna know why your toddler finds it SO fascinating--The Research Behind the Show

Friday, July 18, 2008

"Are you a super-hero daddy?"

  During a lull in the conversation the other day a little voice piped up from the backseat.  "Are you a super-hero daddy?"  It was adorable and completely caught him off guard.  Nate's taken several days off to help me update our kitchen, just a little paint & new wood floors, but it's enough for me to consider him a saint.   In fact, I may have gushed about daddy being a superhero.  She certainly isn't interested in super-hero's unless SuperGrover counts?  
I think she knew she needed to be extra nice to Daddy?  Earlier she'd asked me where a paint stain came from on the old carpet?  Without thinking (I wasn't attaching blame since we were going to pull the carpet out anyway) I said something like "Daddy made a mess."    Sure enough, Nate had  been home for only 5-10 minutes that day when she pointed at the floor at looked expectantly at him asking "Daddy made a mess?"  The look on Nate's face was priceless!   
"Well, she gets to see all the messes I make on a regular basis" I countered.  "It's good to see that daddy's make messes too!"  It was a weak defense I know but even Super-hero's make messes right?!?

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Art as Inspiration as Decor


I'm sure I don't have to convince anyone that "Something's Gotta Give," the beautiful Hampton's movie starring Diane Keaton & Jack Nicholas, is breathtaking simply because of the decor.  Google the movie and you'll see several articles discussing the intense impact this film's had on interior design.  I've loved this movie for years and I FINALLY get it. When the world wants to be more glamorous, sexier, younger, richer, unattached,  this love story suggests that perhaps we've all gotten it wrong?  Perhaps life is simply best at home, in the beauty and dependance of love? 

Unlike your typical love story with the fresh young women & strong, young man who naturally complete each other's sentences.   The female in this story is strong, assertive and jumps into verbal tangles, sort of reminding us of our mothers.  Something ALL of us have believed is anything but sexy or attractive.  Then a funny thing happens.  Jack's never experienced the nurturing strength of a wife. He marvels at it.  Stranded in this lovely home, with this strong women, they both get to play  being "an old married couple."  He's trying new things, like cuddling, and real intimacy, she's understood & loosening up into a beautiful, sexy, woman.  Never loosing any of her strength she grows more beautiful as she softens.  He also discovers how wonderful it is to share his life with another person.  It's clumsy, it's awkward and yet it's breathtaking.

Personally I've had lotz of reason to fall for this precious, fiesty, precarious movie.  When I was a single woman I dove into creating a home for myself as a matter of survival, just like the main character.   Of course, I love any movie about writers, especially one who pours her internal drama into her work.     I love the line: "I've written this [type of situation] but I just never got it."    Helps that it's filled with incredible music.  Much of it French, this has become the unofficial theme music to my own journey.  

This whole thing started because Nate & I are in the process of some home projects and I need a little inspiration.  Check out the article below--I had to publish all of it because I LOVE hearing how art comes together.  I hope you like it as much as I do.  

Decor As Inspiration from Architectural Digest

Other Spaces

Set Design: Something’s Gotta Give

Setting the Scene for Romance in the Hamptons

Production Design by Jon Hutman/Set Decoration by Beth Rubino 
Text by Nancy Collins Published July 2007

For Something’s Gotta Give, director Nancy Meyers asked set decorator Beth Rubino to create a substantial Hamptons house for Diane Keaton, who plays a substantial Manhattan playwright whose daughter is having an affair with Jack Nicholson—until chest pains turn his heart up-side down in more ways than one. Forced to recuperate in the guest room of his girlfriend’s mother’s beach retreat, Nicholson finds that his unexpected infirmary is as big a player as those who inhabit it.

“The house had to reflect Diane’s character, who is a very successful, accomplished New York playwright in her mid-50s,” says Meyers. She is also a divorcĂ©e, following a 20-year marriage, who built her Hamptons house as “a gift to herself—no compromises—just her total vision of a peaceful life. Naturally, it’s a different mind-set than that of a woman who has been single or is part of a couple. There was no chance, for instance,” she chuckles, “that she was going to put a double sink in the bathroom.” Nor, for that matter, include an office. “The desk in her bedroom signifies she’s romantically shut down, in a stage of life where nothing’s going to be going on in the bedroom, so why not have a desk?”

The enthusiasm that went into the building of Diane Keaton’s unlikely love nest was matched only by the melancholy that came with tearing it down.

In other words, she is exactly the kind of dame primed for a romantic upset—who arrives in the form of music mogul Nicholson—“a chronic dater of young women,” says Meyers—who, upon showing up with Keaton’s daughter, Amanda Peet, for a Hamptons weekend, proceeds to collapse and get rushed by his hostess to the hospital, where his doctor happens to be Keanu Reeves. “It’s about people who know what the future holds—then find out it doesn’t, like Jack and Diane, who are falling in love late in life. This house is their desert island. If he hadn’t been stranded, he would never have noticed her.”

Though their five-room “island”—living room, dining room, two bedrooms and kitchen—originally called for a beach cottage, Meyers ended up “doing an elegant house, where I would like to live, with the feeling of ocean everywhere.” As a result, the interiors are awash in sea colors and blues. “They wanted me to go with white slipcovers,” says Meyers, “but this woman would say, ‘I don’t want slipcovers like everybody else.’ She was determined to be at the beach.”

Nancy Meyers’s most pressing conundrum was how to keep her film, an hour of which takes place in five rooms, from feeling like a stage play. “It’s about depth of field, constantly looking from room to room, out a window, believing the beach is beyond,” Meyers explains. “In one scene, where Jack is in the bedroom and Diane stands in the doorway, you see past her into the living room and kitchen. You shouldn’t feel claustrophobic.”

“Hamptons houses that size have space, simplicity and a certain austerity,” adds set decorator Beth Rubino, who, along with Meyers and production designer Jon Hutman, scouted hundreds of Long Island homes before settling on a Southampton beachfront (used for exterior shots only) that Rubino calls their “visual barometer.” “Nancy wanted a house that looked decorated,” she continues, “so we created something wonderful and homey, but chilling”—a feeling Nicholson picked up on when he first visited the set. “During wardrobe fittings,” re-calls Meyers, “I could see Jack was going toward shorts and polo shirts. So I said, ‘Let’s take a look at the house where you’ll be spending time,’ and as soon as we got there, he said, ‘Oh, I get it. No shorts.’”

It wasn’t Nicholson’s only melding with his make-believe environment. “Jack is a great art collector,” says Meyers, “and when he saw the original piece over the living room fireplace, he said, ‘You don’t have any of the great beach art,’ and turned us on to Edward Henry Potthast,” whose whimsical sand-and-umbrella landscape “is the centerpiece of the room. You don’t see it much, but its presence is felt.”

Presence is all when moviemakers are trying to make what is not real—seem so. For starters, movie homes automatically feature the permanent accoutrements of a camera and crew, whose accommodations require space and mobility, like the kitchen’s islands, easily zoomed around on casters. During her survey, Meyers noticed that all fabulous Hamptons houses had “blowout kitchens”— as does the director herself. “There’s a lot of action in the kitchen because lots of scenes in my life take place in mine, which, like the movie’s, is a little too big.”

“Diane’s character loves to cook, so we had to have a practical, functional kitchen,” says Rubino, “that could also hold a lot of people.” Even so, Meyers preferred to keep her walls right where they were. “I don’t like to take down walls because you always think, Where did that wall go? How did that camera get inside the refrigerator? I like to keep things real-looking.”

Which was no problem for the self-admitted perfectionist Rubino, an Academy Award nominee for The Cider House Rules. “In a movie set, as opposed to a residence, you have to intrinsically build the entire lives of the characters,” she explains. “In a regular residence, you’re creating the top layer of their environment; in a movie we do that but create subtext as well.”

Take, for instance, the 3,000 books that Rubino shipped out from New York’s Strand Book Store. “Writers are passionate about books, so you don’t just get a collection of spines, you arrange them as an evolution of what Diane was reading: Is she interested in perennials, native beach plants, self- help? In the bedroom, where she’s working on a play, it’s all reference books. Though you only see books shot by shot”—indeed, a mezzanine loaded with tomes, categorized foot by foot, goes virtually unnoticed—“it builds depth for the set, making a very rounded environment for the actors.”

For her part, Meyers called friend and playwright Donald Margulies, demanding: “Tell me what’s on your desk,” a request that elicited a “highly detailed e-mail.” As a result, when the cast took their initial walk-through of their new “home,” “we had Diane’s plays, hardbound, sitting on her desk, along with scrapbooks filled with her clippings. Beth even sprayed suntan lotion around so they’d feel they’d just come in from the beach.”

When it came to the dining room, Rubino and Meyers reserved the place of honor for the 70-inch round table designed to adapt to a specific 360-degree shot. Nearby is a wall of plates, “beautiful but absolutely colorless except for one that has a little color, as Beth pointed out to me one day,” recalls Meyers. “Well, in the movie, Diane’s character collects beach stones, and there’s a scene where Jack indicates that they’re all white. She says, ‘I don’t collect only white. Oh, God, I didn’t know. Does that mean I’m controlling? Not adventurous?’ So he hands her a big, dark brown stone, saying, ‘Here’s something to remember me by.’” Art imitating art, perhaps? “Well, it made us laugh.”

The women’s collective sensibility was not lost on Diane Keaton. “Diane has a brilliant eye,” says Meyers. “I showed her the house empty, then with furniture, and both times she went crazy, which was great for me because it wasn’t really her taste.”

Clearly, Meyers and Rubino were exquisitely in sync. “Nancy is very involved in the visual process,” says Rubino. “She approved every fabric, every shape.” Upon hearing this compliment, Meyers laughs. “That’s code for ‘She’s a pain in the butt.’ But if you’ve spent a chunk of your life writing a character and someone puts them in the wrong clothes, or in a bed with sheets you know she would never own, it’s as if someone’s written dialogue. Sometimes you pick up more from what you’re seeing than hearing.”

The enthusiasm that went into the building of Diane Keaton’s unlikely love nest was matched only by the melancholy that came with tearing down fully appointed rooms where, for two and a half months, people lived and worked. “It’s horrible,” admits Meyers. “People say, ‘Go watch them tear it down,’ but I can’t. It’s simply too sad.”

Unlike Something’s Gotta Give, which is a funny, truthful, charming movie about grown-ups. “Jack and Diane are such icons,” says Meyers. “And to see them at this age, still smart and good-looking, finding each other in this movie—when we all know their personal journeys—is great fun. After all, people don’t stop falling in love just because they get older.”

Something’s Gotta Give is currently available on DVD from Sony Pictures Home EntertainmentFor Something’s Gotta Give, director Nancy Meyers asked set decorator Beth Rubino to create a substantial Hamptons house for Diane Keaton, who plays a substantial Manhattan playwright whose daughter is having an affair with Jack Nicholson—until chest pains turn his heart up-side down in more ways than one. Forced to recuperate in the guest room of his girlfriend’s mother’s beach retreat, Nicholson finds that his unexpected infirmary is as big a player as those who inhabit it.

“The house had to reflect Diane’s character, who is a very successful, accomplished New York playwright in her mid-50s,” says Meyers. She is also a divorcĂ©e, following a 20-year marriage, who built her Hamptons house as “a gift to herself—no compromises—just her total vision of a peaceful life. Naturally, it’s a different mind-set than that of a woman who has been single or is part of a couple. There was no chance, for instance,” she chuckles, “that she was going to put a double sink in the bathroom.” Nor, for that matter, include an office. “The desk in her bedroom signifies she’s romantically shut down, in a stage of life where nothing’s going to be going on in the bedroom, so why not have a desk?”

The enthusiasm that went into the building of Diane Keaton’s unlikely love nest was matched only by the melancholy that came with tearing it down.

In other words, she is exactly the kind of dame primed for a romantic upset—who arrives in the form of music mogul Nicholson—“a chronic dater of young women,” says Meyers—who, upon showing up with Keaton’s daughter, Amanda Peet, for a Hamptons weekend, proceeds to collapse and get rushed by his hostess to the hospital, where his doctor happens to be Keanu Reeves. “It’s about people who know what the future holds—then find out it doesn’t, like Jack and Diane, who are falling in love late in life. This house is their desert island. If he hadn’t been stranded, he would never have noticed her.”

Though their five-room “island”—living room, dining room, two bedrooms and kitchen—originally called for a beach cottage, Meyers ended up “doing an elegant house, where I would like to live, with the feeling of ocean everywhere.” As a result, the interiors are awash in sea colors and blues. “They wanted me to go with white slipcovers,” says Meyers, “but this woman would say, ‘I don’t want slipcovers like everybody else.’ She was determined to be at the beach.”

Nancy Meyers’s most pressing conundrum was how to keep her film, an hour of which takes place in five rooms, from feeling like a stage play. “It’s about depth of field, constantly looking from room to room, out a window, believing the beach is beyond,” Meyers explains. “In one scene, where Jack is in the bedroom and Diane stands in the doorway, you see past her into the living room and kitchen. You shouldn’t feel claustrophobic.”

“Hamptons houses that size have space, simplicity and a certain austerity,” adds set decorator Beth Rubino, who, along with Meyers and production designer Jon Hutman, scouted hundreds of Long Island homes before settling on a Southampton beachfront (used for exterior shots only) that Rubino calls their “visual barometer.” “Nancy wanted a house that looked decorated,” she continues, “so we created something wonderful and homey, but chilling”—a feeling Nicholson picked up on when he first visited the set. “During wardrobe fittings,” re-calls Meyers, “I could see Jack was going toward shorts and polo shirts. So I said, ‘Let’s take a look at the house where you’ll be spending time,’ and as soon as we got there, he said, ‘Oh, I get it. No shorts.’”

It wasn’t Nicholson’s only melding with his make-believe environment. “Jack is a great art collector,” says Meyers, “and when he saw the original piece over the living room fireplace, he said, ‘You don’t have any of the great beach art,’ and turned us on to Edward Henry Potthast,” whose whimsical sand-and-umbrella landscape “is the centerpiece of the room. You don’t see it much, but its presence is felt.”

Presence is all when moviemakers are trying to make what is not real—seem so. For starters, movie homes automatically feature the permanent accoutrements of a camera and crew, whose accommodations require space and mobility, like the kitchen’s islands, easily zoomed around on casters. During her survey, Meyers noticed that all fabulous Hamptons houses had “blowout kitchens”— as does the director herself. “There’s a lot of action in the kitchen because lots of scenes in my life take place in mine, which, like the movie’s, is a little too big.”

“Diane’s character loves to cook, so we had to have a practical, functional kitchen,” says Rubino, “that could also hold a lot of people.” Even so, Meyers preferred to keep her walls right where they were. “I don’t like to take down walls because you always think, Where did that wall go? How did that camera get inside the refrigerator? I like to keep things real-looking.”

Which was no problem for the self-admitted perfectionist Rubino, an Academy Award nominee for The Cider House Rules. “In a movie set, as opposed to a residence, you have to intrinsically build the entire lives of the characters,” she explains. “In a regular residence, you’re creating the top layer of their environment; in a movie we do that but create subtext as well.”

Take, for instance, the 3,000 books that Rubino shipped out from New York’s Strand Book Store. “Writers are passionate about books, so you don’t just get a collection of spines, you arrange them as an evolution of what Diane was reading: Is she interested in perennials, native beach plants, self- help? In the bedroom, where she’s working on a play, it’s all reference books. Though you only see books shot by shot”—indeed, a mezzanine loaded with tomes, categorized foot by foot, goes virtually unnoticed—“it builds depth for the set, making a very rounded environment for the actors.”

For her part, Meyers called friend and playwright Donald Margulies, demanding: “Tell me what’s on your desk,” a request that elicited a “highly detailed e-mail.” As a result, when the cast took their initial walk-through of their new “home,” “we had Diane’s plays, hardbound, sitting on her desk, along with scrapbooks filled with her clippings. Beth even sprayed suntan lotion around so they’d feel they’d just come in from the beach.”

When it came to the dining room, Rubino and Meyers reserved the place of honor for the 70-inch round table designed to adapt to a specific 360-degree shot. Nearby is a wall of plates, “beautiful but absolutely colorless except for one that has a little color, as Beth pointed out to me one day,” recalls Meyers. “Well, in the movie, Diane’s character collects beach stones, and there’s a scene where Jack indicates that they’re all white. She says, ‘I don’t collect only white. Oh, God, I didn’t know. Does that mean I’m controlling? Not adventurous?’ So he hands her a big, dark brown stone, saying, ‘Here’s something to remember me by.’” Art imitating art, perhaps? “Well, it made us laugh.”

The women’s collective sensibility was not lost on Diane Keaton. “Diane has a brilliant eye,” says Meyers. “I showed her the house empty, then with furniture, and both times she went crazy, which was great for me because it wasn’t really her taste.”

Clearly, Meyers and Rubino were exquisitely in sync. “Nancy is very involved in the visual process,” says Rubino. “She approved every fabric, every shape.” Upon hearing this compliment, Meyers laughs. “That’s code for ‘She’s a pain in the butt.’ But if you’ve spent a chunk of your life writing a character and someone puts them in the wrong clothes, or in a bed with sheets you know she would never own, it’s as if someone’s written dialogue. Sometimes you pick up more from what you’re seeing than hearing.”

The enthusiasm that went into the building of Diane Keaton’s unlikely love nest was matched only by the melancholy that came with tearing down fully appointed rooms where, for two and a half months, people lived and worked. “It’s horrible,” admits Meyers. “People say, ‘Go watch them tear it down,’ but I can’t. It’s simply too sad.”

Unlike Something’s Gotta Give, which is a funny, truthful, charming movie about grown-ups. “Jack and Diane are such icons,” says Meyers. “And to see them at this age, still smart and good-looking, finding each other in this movie—when we all know their personal journeys—is great fun. After all, people don’t stop falling in love just because they get older.”

Something’s Gotta Give is currently available on DVD from Sony Pictures Home Entertainment

Saturday, July 05, 2008

Nate's New Gig. . .


Finally, my husband will be doing something that I can explain to people. Better yet have this guy explain it to you (Yuval Brisker CEO TOA Technologies) after all he created the process. It's official, after eight years of service Nate will be moving from the Duane Arnold Power Plant, in Palo Iowa. His new upscale offices will be right next to Sophia's bedroom, although his territory will include far more exotic locations like-France, Spain, London, Portugal, the Netherlands, California & Florida to name a few. We're so proud of him & thankful that God has made His will so clear during this transition. Thankfully, Nate can take a global job while we keep our roots in Cedar Rapids. This city has been very good to us, after last months flooding we felt like we couldn't leave just yet. Thanks to everyone who's supported us during this transition--and all of our international friends get ready Nate may just be in your neighborhood soon!

Wednesday, July 02, 2008

Black Gold, Oil That Is. . .


Oil is making millionaires in North DakotaBy JAMES MacPHERSON, Associated Press Writer

Landowners in western North Dakota have a much better chance of striking it rich from oil than they do playing the lottery, say the Stohlers. Some of their neighbors in the town of about 120, from bar tenders to Tupperware salespeople, have become "overnight millionaires" from oil royalty payments.

"It's the easiest money we've ever made," said Lorene Stohler, who worked for decades as a sales clerk at a small department store.

State and industry officials say North Dakota is on pace to set a state oil-production record this year, surpassing the 52.6 million barrels produced in 1984. A record number of drill rigs are piercing the prairie and North Dakota has nearly 4,000 active oil wells.

The drilling frenzy has led companies to search for oil using horizontal drilling beneath Parshall, a town of about 980 in Mountrail County, and under Lake Sakakawea, 180-mile-long reservoir on the Missouri River.

"I have heard, anecdotally, that there is a millionaire a day being created in North Dakota," said Ron Ness, president of the North Dakota Petroleum Council.

Kathy Strombeck, a state Tax Department analyst, said the number of "income millionaires" in North Dakota is rising.

The number of taxpayers reporting adjusted gross income of more than $1 million in North Dakota rose from 266 in 2005 to 388 in 2006, Strombeck said. The 2007 numbers won't be known until October, she said.

There are about 1,000 some people in Parshall, a lovely little town on the wide-open expanse, that has been getting a lot of attention recently.  Personally, it's the hometown of several family members. On the LONG drive from Iowa to North Dakota, it was also the first sign that we were close to Grandma's!  This area is made up of hard-working farmers who've experienced extreme winters and some heartbreaking harvests.  I can't imagine a more deserving people.

Tuesday, July 01, 2008

JANE AUSTEN BOOK CLUB

"You ought, perhaps to include a larger allowance of prose in your daily study." J. Austen
"My idea of good company, is the company of clever, well-informed people who have a great deal of conversation."  J. Austen

This summer our book club will be starting with Mansfield Park.  But I noticed this little tid-bit from Emma.  See if you can guess the one word phrase from a series of clues in an original Austen Charades game:
"My first doth affliction denote
Which my second is destin'd to feel.
And my whole is the best antidote 
That affection to soften & heal.
To solve the charade, you must break down the riddle into parts. 'My first' is the hint to the first syllable of the word to be guessed. 'My second' hints at the second syllable of the word, and 'My whole' is the hint for the whole word. The first syllable of the word woe, the second syllable is man, which creates woe-man. The answer to the charade is woman."  
-John Lithgow, A Lithgow Palooza 101 Ways to entertain and Inspire your Kids. (A MUST HAVE FOR MOMS)

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Helping our Neighbors


Aid to Women  a local crisis pregnancy center has experienced extensive damage due to the flood.  Water rose higher than expected in our building.  All computer equipment, printing equipment, furniture, food, clothing, etc. on the first floor were covered by the flood waters.
This organization is near & dear to my heart: unfortunately they were without flood insurance, like many others in our city, b/c they were outside the 100 year flood plain.  They are in desperate need of volunteers to help clean, monetary and material donations to continue their important support services in our community.   Please visit their website for more information & help our neighbors help our city!

Friday, June 20, 2008

THE BIG BIRD IS IN THE SKY!

Marine One, the Presidential helicopter is impressive in it's own right.  (Just ask Sophia & her friends who waved delightedly at the Presidential convey hovering over Linn & Johnson County's yesterday.)  
Three matching helicopters-all in formation!  Low enough to the ground to give a birds-eye view of post-flood-destruction!  The roaring, methodical thump, was enough to make the hairs on the back of your neck to creep up.   
It's not unusual to witness a dozen or so planes from my parents deck in less than an hour--coming in low--'on approach' to the Cedar Rapids airport.    Yesterday, looking out at the vast expanse of sky that's my parents view.  It wasn't what we saw that was so eerie, it was what we didn't. 

Not a plane in the sky for miles--that meant only one thing.  A no-fly zone issued in our air-space for this last-minute visit by the nation's leader.  (My dad's a pilot--what can I say? Growing up in my house you have to notice these things--why do you think live so close to the airport?!?)

This latest adventure was something Sophia couldn't stop talking about.  Thankfully it was fun for her to tell everyone she'd waved at the HE-I-COTER.  For the rest of us it was just another reminder of the work to be done in order to restore our fair-city.


CEDAR RAPIDS CLEANS UP WHAT FLOODING LEFT BEHIND

From the Wall Street Journal

Cedar Rapids, population 120,000, is one of the hardest hit. Last week, the Cedar River swelled out of its banks, covering 9.2 square miles of dry land and forcing the evacuation of 3,900 homes. Most of downtown, including city hall, the police station and many businesses, was shut down. Eight bridges, including Interstate 380, were closed at least temporarily. A railroad bridge collapsed.

The city set up a perimeter manned by police and the National Guard around the most flooded areas to prevent looting and enable teams of inspectors to ensure that homes were structurally sound. Now, those barriers are being moved closer to the river, and more and more people are gaining access to their homes.

"There's no playbook for this," said Brad Novak, a detective with the Cedar Rapids police department who was manning a checkpoint Monday.

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Wednesday, June 18, 2008

How many adults does it take to pottytrain a little girl?

Answer: At least three, in our house and two more on deck to encourage & supervise.  
This week has been an odd one.  The Ndjeraerou's have been staying with Nana & Papa, b/c of the flooding induced water shortage (my parents are on a private well.)   To make the week even more unusual, Nana's been home from the flooded U of I for an unexpected week vacation, and daddy has been working odd hours (nights & weekends) on the emergency response team for the local power plant.     All that to say--when you have lemons-make lemonade-then drink lotz of it and commence potty training!  

It's been amazing to see my little girl get so excited about this new phase in life.  I had all sorts of tricks & treats planned that I didn't even get to b/c of our unusual circumstances.  Instead, Sophia's gotten LOTZ of encouragement & reminding from Nana & Daddy, Uncle Dana, Mommy & Papa.   It's so obvious that Sophia's a first born--she doesn't need much more motivation than making those she loves proud.  

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Rebuilding Our Roots





Imagine my surprise the other day, when I went to welcome a friend of a friend into our home for a little get together.  The face on the other side of the door was remarkably familiar & it only took a moment to recognize a high school choir friend! Of course we've both changed our names since then and so we had no idea of the connection.   Amazingly, since high school, we've also both become artists in our own right, passionate about bringing glory to God and encouragement to His people.  

I'm thrilled that Allie & Nick have moved back to Cedar Rapids, and wanted to plug their latest appearance & album.

Nick and Allie 
Lapointe
together in concert this Friday June 20th 7-10pm
at Java Creek Cafe
588 Boyson Rd. NE

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Happy Birthday Minga Grace!







On a happier note.   We're so thankful for our beautiful sister!  All these pictures are evidence of Minga's fun-loving personality & HUGE heart.  Sophia can't ask for a more adoring auntie & we're so proud of our up and coming architect! 

Friday, June 13, 2008

CR UPDATE

For our friends & family across the world thank you for your prayers. The Cedar River has crested at 31.2 feet, 12 feet is considered flood stage.  1929 the river flooded at 21 feet, that was the highest flood in recorded history.  At the moment it doesn't look like flood waters will recede until next Friday!  And more rain is expected! It's safe to say that it looks like the end of the world here!  

The devastation is horrendous and it's still coming. We've been collecting rainwater for flushing toilets but our infrastructures gone as well.  All our important buildings, police, fire, court house, schools, we've even evacuated a hospital b/c it was taking on water. 

We've fled to my parents home b/c they're on a well, (the entire city is running out of water--ironic I know) and Nate is working emergency response for the Nuclear Plant overnight. This means we'd be separated by the river if he'd gone without us.  From my parents house it's closer to their secondary emergency site (The primary back-up site went under Wednesday--more irony.) 

The Ndjerareou's & Wollschlager's are safe, our homes are safe, but the downtown is completely gone.  We've NEVER imagined anything like this.  It makes you just want to cry. Beautiful churches, businesses, theaters, banks, miles of destruction, 438 city blocks it's ALL GONE.  Almost 25% of the city is gone. $737 million dollars worth of destruction.  At the same time the city is thankful for 0 loss of life & 0 crime related incidents.  We're indebted to our rescue workers for your faithful service.
  

Moving Response from Local Pastor

The following was written by a dear friend of the Ndjerareou family. Erin Bird is the young adult pastor at New Covenant Bible Church in Cedar Rapids, I share his feeling of desolation & isolation from the rest of the world, and pride in my community.   Thank you Erin for your words & perspective.

"This morning the top headline feed on Google News was a New York Time's headline about the flood here in Cedar Rapids, so I clicked to see if anything had developed overnight. I was suddenly awake as I read the insulting New York Times article which almost seemed to mock the people and officials of Cedar Rapids, making it sound as if we had asked for this. Christopher Maag, the author, writes that we were cocky, thinking something like this would never happen. He even chides our forefathers for building our government buildings on an island in the river. Mr. Maag makes it appear we are like the godless people of Noah's time, laughing at the possibility of a catastrophic flood.

But what Mr. Maag barely points out is that the previous record, set twice, was 20 inches. The famous '93 flood didn't even break the 20 inch mark. How could anyone expect we'd break the record not by a couple feet, but by 12 feet? We are surpassing even a 500 year flood. How do you prepare for that? Yet Mr. Maag seems to think that we should have been ready for a 32 foot crest, and to not be ready for that huge of a flood is foolish. For Mr. Maag to paint the people of Cedar Rapids in this light under these conditions does nothing to encourage the people nor point out the resiliency and determination of this community. So let me give a more accurate picture.

Last night I was serving as a "chaplain" at the Red Cross shelter set up at Viola Gibson School. The people I talked with weren't in denial, they weren't feeling foolish, they weren't shaking their fists at God. They were taking this in stride - they weren't looking defeated. One 70-year-old man I talked with lost the home that he had grown up in since birth, and yet there were no tears. He knew that when he died someday, he wouldn't be able to take anything with him, and so his "stuff" wasn't worth worrying about. He just knew he'd have a lot of work awaiting him once he could return to the house. And he was fine with that.

Once the lights were turned out, I headed home. I had heard that they needed sandbaggers at the Edgewood well, so I planned to change clothes and head over to help. But as I was buying water at Wal-Mart, LeAnn called to let me know they no longer needed sandbaggers - so I headed home to stay. As I watched the continuing coverage on KCRG, I saw hundreds of volunteers helping sandbag around Mercy Hospital. They weren't quitting. Even as the flood waters continued to rise, shattering all predictions, the people of Cedar Rapids fought on.

This morning while calling people to recruit volunteers for today, I found out about people who were volunteering through the night yesterday. No one seemed to be thinking it was foolish to keep fighting on. No one is complaining about the water rationing. Even the civil servants of the city aren't complaining when they have to do extra work because of those who held out hope they could stay in their homes.

Perhaps Mr. Maag isn't really in Cedar Rapids. Perhaps he is merely receiving info from other sources (like this really bad article) and he's piecing it together, informing his writing with his perceived stereotype of Iowans. Because if he had spent just a little bit of time with the people I did last night and watched the efforts I saw on the news, I think his article would have a very different tone."  Erin Bird 

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Water Supply at Critical Level


UPDATE: The water supply is at a critical level in Cedar Rapids and Robins. The Water Department is currently only able to produce water at 25 percent of normal operation.
Unless water demand is drastically reduced a water shortage will occur soon. While water usage has decreased today, consumption must be reduced from 16 million gallons per day to 12 million gallons per day in order to avoid shutting off water completely to areas of the city.City officials are urging residents to use water only for drinking, to use paper plates and avoid doing dishes or running a dishwasher. Residents are also being urged not to flush the toilet after each use, to use hand sanitizer rather than water to washing hands, and to avoid operating a washing machine." Cedar Rapids Gazette



For those of us in the affected area-please collect rain water in pots or buckets for non-essential use. This will help our community in this time of need.  Rainwater can be collected from gutter spouts or open-air. A bucket of rain water can flush a toilet, or be boiled for cleaning and other essential uses.    Rainwater Collection System Info

Footage from Downtown taken early this afternoon

Mother Nature Unleashes Furry On Cedar Rapids


And the rain keeps coming.

He noted that a 125-foot breach occurred in the levee early Thursday that protects the Time Check Neighborhood in northwest Cedar Rapids, a break that helped to catch some people in their homes.
Havlik said some firefighters have been working 24 and 48 hours straight.
Meanwhile, Linn County spokesman Mike Goldberg asked all residents to not travel in or near flooded areas.
Goldberg said the additional two-and-half inches of rain this morning in the Cedar River watershed is adding to the water in flooded areas, because the new water has not been able to drain into storm sewers that now are plugged to prevent river water from running back into them.Goldberg said the additional rain will make the flooding event last longer and make recovery more difficult.

Floods Wipe out Downtown Cedar Rapids


It's so strange to see your own city on MSNBC, especially with pictures like these. It's the type of thing that happens to other people in other places. It's bizarre to see boats shuttling people downtown 1st Ave (Main street Cedar Rapids) And it keeps raining! Right now it looks like the worst of the flooding won't come through till Tuesday! Experts are claiming this is a 500 year flood! It's no surprise that the director of FEMA will be visiting us soon. Right now no one knows the extent of the destruction, that will have to be determined only AFTER the water recedes. 
Ironically, my neighborhood was gearing up for a garage sale this weekend. Even if the rain hadn't kept the people away, Nate & I decided that everything we'd marked for sale will now just go toward flood relief.   It's obvious that many parts of our community have lost everything in less than a day. Thankfully a large part of the affected area include industrial facilities and businesses, not homes. The majority of homes in our area are in typical suburban sprawl far from flooded areas, ourselves included. But there are no words to describe the images we're watching, friends and neighbors who are watching their place of business become islands.   Cedar Rapids typically finds pride in the fact that our city offices are grandly perched on an island, a rare feat shared only by Paris, France, you can only imagine what's becoming to these buildings, ousting important operations. This is beyond anything our community has ever experienced.  Our prayers are with our city, our thanks to the brave souls who are providing for and protecting us at this moment.  You can be sure we will stand beside you today and in the difficult days ahead.

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Anyone know how to build an ark. . .

But seriously, remember all that snow?  Well now it's rain and it just keeps coming & coming. 
The Cedar River that runs through the heart of downtown Cedar Rapids is expected to crest at 117.41 in the next few days, parts of Cedar Rapids & Cedar Falls & Palo have already been evacuated. Personally, we're not in any danger, but we haven't seen anything like this around here in over 12 years.  Nate's on call, in case roads around the power plant where he works become flooded.  Please pray for our area over the next couple of days.    

Monday, June 09, 2008

Wanna feel smarter? Part I

“He has all of the virtues I dislike and none of the vices I admire." Winston Churchill

This is one of my favorite quotes. You have to like a person who’d use this line in a sentence?  So when Dana gave me an audio copy of Churchill's, History of the English Speaking People. I didn't hesitate. (Typically, I take Dana's tips with a grain of salt--b/c we have such VASTLY different taste.) It's not unusual to hear me stomping down the stairs grumbling something like "THAT WAS A COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME!!"  To which my husband responds--"Didn't like the book (or movie?)”

 "NO!"  I reply and then proceed into a tirade, wondering why I spent several hours of my life on a despondent Cold War spy who finally does something good with his life only to be shot dead on the last page?

Personally, I have enough unnecessary drama in my real life.  In my fiction, I like a happy ending, or at least something uplifting, even unique.  Dana, on the other hand, appreciates the harshness of real life, or straight fantasy (with our without a satirical twist.)

It fascinates me when life OR art intersect. Recently, I was browsing the impressive reading list of a college friend, and saw several titles by Anne Perry.  Later, when I found Anne Perry's Ashworth Hall,   I had to have it!  (Admittedly, I found it at a garage sale--it was well worth my $2.00 for the hardback) This interesting historical fiction about English & Irish relations really compliments Churchill's take on actual events (Which you shouldn't read by the way--listen to it.  Then you really get his humor.  It's SO dry-- you could go right past it before you realized he was ripping on someone. What’s history without witty commentary??

Wanna feel smarter? Part II

Hang out with my beautiful sister-in-law Deborah! New high school graduate!  Congrats Deb! We're so proud of you and LOVE seeing that gorgeous smile! And thanks for sharing your love of lit with me!

I must have been good this year b/c I've been having great reading karma.  You know when you pass on a good book and get a GREAT book back!  So I passed Ashworth Hall to Deborah, Nate's littlest sister, who just graduated from HS (CONGRATS DEB!!)  And she gave me THREE CUPS OF TEA in return.  An incredibly uplifting book about a man who builds schools for girls in Afghanistan.  My karma kept getting better b/c I'd just watched Charlie Wilson's War (WARNING: DON'T WATCH THE FIRST SCENE) Charlie Wilson has very questionable ethics-and they make their point--but that is the truth of the movie? I know not an excuse.  It does give you a historical perspective on Afghanistan (Don't worry Nate didn't watch-I'm a great censor)

All that to say I LOVE-when life, art & literature all intersect.  
P.S. No, I didn't receive any $ from Amazon.com in the making of this post.   But if you know how I could--please share the love! 

To Facebook or Not to Facebook. . .



That is the question? Recently, a friend of mine expressed dismay that I wasn't on Facebook. I know that it wasn't personal, just got me thinking. Can I keep up with multiple sites? Do I have anything to share on Facebook? What's the big deal? Am I missing out?
More importantly---am I not on Facebook because I have a life? Or, do I really have a life if I'm not on Facebook?

Monday, June 02, 2008

The Secret to 60 Years



"Then in 1965 I went on a weekend silent retreat at a monastery overlooking the Hudson River. We were to silence our voices, the monk leading the retreat told us, in order to hear God’s. “The Latin word for hearing,” he said, “is audire. It’s the root of our English word obedience. To obey God means to hear him.” Obey…this word I’d resisted so long? And rightly, I’m sure, if obey means the imposition of one person’s will on another. But suppose there was an older, deeper, truer meaning. Suppose “love, honor and hear” were, in fact, the best promises any bride could make to her husband.

That weekend I began to grasp how hard it is to hear—really hear! Whether it’s God’s voice we’re listening for or another human being’s, how our own fears, assumptions and expectations get in the way! For a husband and wife especially, they can drown out the voice of the actual person in front of us."

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